
Scroll down to see answers to frequently asked mediation questions.
What is family mediation?
Family mediation is a process where a neutral third party (the mediator) helps parents or spouses discuss issues like parenting, child support, alimony, and property division. The mediator does not take sides or decide the case but helps both parties reach an agreement.
Is family mediation confidential?
Yes. Under Florida law (Chapter 44, Florida Statutes), mediation is confidential. What is said in mediation cannot be used in court, except in limited situations such as child abuse, elder abuse, or threats of violence.
What issues can be resolved in mediation?
​Family mediation in Florida can address a wide range of issues. These often include creating or modifying parenting plans and timesharing arrangements (custody), determining child support, and deciding whether alimony (spousal support) should be awarded. Mediation also helps couples divide property, which may involve homes, vehicles, bank accounts, and debts. In addition, other family-related disputes that arise during divorce or separation can also be resolved through mediation.
Do I have to agree in mediation?
No. While attendance is usually required, you cannot be forced to sign an agreement. If you do not settle, the case will continue through the court system.
What happens if we reach an agreement?
​The mediator or your lawyer will write up the agreement. Both parties sign it, and it can be filed with the court. If the judge approves, it becomes a binding court order.
What happens if we don’t reach an agreement?
If you cannot agree on all issues, the case moves forward to trial, and the judge will make the final decision. Mediation can still be helpful by narrowing down the issues.
Can children attend mediation?
No. Children do not attend mediation unless the court specifically orders otherwise. Parenting issues are handled by the adults, with the child’s best interest as the guiding principle.
How long does family mediation take?
It depends. Some cases can be resolved in a few hours, while others may take multiple sessions, depending on the number and complexity of the issues.
Why is mediation encouraged in family cases?
Mediation is usually faster, less expensive, and less stressful than trial. It also gives parents more control over decisions that affect their children, instead of leaving those decisions to a judge.